Appliances Break But Your Relationships Don't Have To
Trim the WickApril 09, 2021x
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Appliances Break But Your Relationships Don't Have To

A new family favorite show, and how washers and dryers and refrigerators teach some great lessons about what's worth investing yourself in! Have a question? Need to talk? Send us a message!

A new family favorite show, and how washers and dryers and refrigerators teach some great lessons about what's worth investing yourself in!

Have a question? Need to talk? Send us a message!

[00:00:00] Early on, one of our favorite things to do on our anniversary was go to a store and go, you know what? If money were no object but it is. And if money were no object and I was willing to spend five to seven dollars on a piece

[00:00:16] of paper that opens up and tells you how wonderful you are, this is the one I would buy. And we would exchange cards in the card island and put them right back in the slot. And the seeing God in the everyday world, hi, honey. Honey, honey.

[00:00:52] Hey, baby, how are you doing? Doing good. It's um, you know, I got my book near, bold, cheap, and cheap, and cheap. Of course, you do. And yeah, it's doing good. How to Great Easter. That was a fantastic time.

[00:01:05] We got to go visit with the folks and when set of folks and we'll see the other set of folks soon I hope. But yeah, it was a good time. We had a great service. It's fun celebrating Jesus and celebrating his resurrection.

[00:01:20] It is kind of sad how weak we kind of put so much emphasis in Christmas and we build Christmas up and it seems like Easter is that thing. But the thing we're supposed to remember, the thing that we're really supposed to make

[00:01:31] sure that we don't forget is the resurrection and what happens. So great, great time this past weekend at church and... It was a fantastic time. In fact, one of the things that Dan and I were just sitting there looking at each other

[00:01:46] and grin in most of the service this past Sunday, we're going to link that service down in the notes somewhere. If you guys want to go check it out because our pastor built and went in depth into Jesus in the Passover.

[00:02:05] But took a very different angle than what we had covered before and you don't want to miss that. It was a beautiful message so we'll link that down below and check it out. Yeah, now that's going to be premiered for our YouTube audience because it's a...

[00:02:18] It'll be a YouTube link. So we'll have that in there for you but yeah, it's neat because he actually where we kind of ended he kind of kept going with us. So it was just awesome to be a part of that as well.

[00:02:32] But then we got to do something cool that night because the chosen... One of the coolest shows out there debuted season two and so we need to explain real quick if you've never seen the chosen, we know there's lots of people out there that have no

[00:02:49] idea what the chosen is. Basically it's the story of Jesus and the disciples. And it's not a movie so they have time to really develop. They had the first season, I don't know how many episodes were in the first season. I think it was nine episodes, ten episodes...

[00:03:06] And the first season... Not enough. No. And so they were able to really develop the characters. You get to see the disciples and who they are, the family relationships before they meet Jesus.

[00:03:17] And it's done in a way, in a fresh way that you know, but it's done in a way that you can really attach to because they're real people. Right. Jesus is a real person, not just the disciples. They all have families and personalities and that comes to life.

[00:03:37] Right. I mean we forget that they had jobs that they went out to the pub at the time period. And they struggled with family relationships with the having mothers and mothers laws. And these things, these expectations that their parents put on them and things like that.

[00:03:59] And we lose all that because we kind of just pick up the story where they are, we kind of forget. Right. You know it's funny how the masters of the enlightened period, you know, and all the

[00:04:11] renaissance, paintings and stuff like that has set such a deep and grained image of who Jesus was in the disciples. So nice to see Jesus put into a real world scenario with real people dealing with the real things of life.

[00:04:32] And because they're not having to push everything into a two hour movie, they can do it over a season. They are able to really develop these things and we're not going to go into any spoilers. No. No spoilers here at least this week.

[00:04:47] But if you haven't seen the chosen, it's real easy to see. It's on YouTube. You can look it up. There's an app that you can download and when you download it has all the episodes there and you just click on them, watch them.

[00:05:03] They've even designed the app to make it simple to cast. And when I mean by cast like, yeah, so you can throw it from your phone to a television station. Right. To a television station. Yep. To a TV. To a TV station.

[00:05:18] To have the capability and a lot of apps don't allow you to do that, but this particular one, it has a button on it or you can just look because what they really want to do

[00:05:28] is they really want to put this in the hands of people who have been hurt by the church have been beaten up by this idea almost of who Jesus is. The idea of who the disciples were.

[00:05:43] And they're trying to tell the story in a way that is, I say, fresh. Because it's a fresh telling. They are staying biblical, which is great. They're doing beautiful things. They're doing beautiful things. It's really neat because you're seeing how things are developing and how they're taking

[00:06:04] stories that are listed in one of the gospels. They're not word for word saying it, but just to give you, it's not a spoiler. There's a moment in the first season where Jesus is sitting with Nicodemus. It's the John 316 passage, basically. You guys have read it the book.

[00:06:25] You guys know these parts are going to be in there. But listening to Nicodemus wrestling with that, how can you be born again? That makes no sense. You know, you're speaking of something that is crazy talk. But to see that broke out.

[00:06:46] So check out the beautiful storytelling and the sets are gorgeous and the costuming is effective and it's not, okay, I'm going to say that I was a church kid. It's not cheesy, Christian TV. This is well produced, well done. It's entirely crowdfunded, which is a beautiful thing.

[00:07:05] When you download the app, you can choose to pay forward so that it begins funding the next seasons. So it is free to watch on the app. The app is completely free and the watches are completely free, but you can choose to donate and continue producing this too.

[00:07:19] Right. Yeah, it's just, it's a lot of fun. So if you haven't seen it, go download the app. Start watching it. Watch all season one binge. You know, get to some good snacks and binge it over the weekend. And then get watch on season two.

[00:07:37] Now they just drop season two, right? Which right off the bat, it's riveting. Yeah. It really grabs you because just again, how they're doing the storytelling. It's fresh, it's new, it really grabs you and it tells the story in a way that just makes you think.

[00:07:58] And you know, it's, again, don't want to go on the spoilers. I think we're talking about because- I think you know we like it. One of the fun things that has been nice for our family is that our family lives stones

[00:08:13] throw from the biggest entertainment complex in the world. You know, we're right outside a Disney world. And so our kids have kind of grown up with understanding storytelling, understanding, theming, understanding plot and character development. Those things matter to them in their entertainment.

[00:08:32] And sometimes it's hard to find that in entertainment. This has all of that one of the things that we absolutely love about it is that because these are real people, because these are real stories and real human interactions, there's humor. Yes.

[00:08:50] And there's, you know, there's that gentle ribbing of friends that are around each other in awful lot. And you see that everybody in our family, regardless of age, goes, oh, yeah, I can relate to that. I can relate to sibling rivalry.

[00:09:05] I can relate to, you know, those day-to-day things. Yeah. And the simple things of, you know, we always think, oh, the disciples like each other. Well, no they didn't. I mean, it's quite hard. What's up, they did? Some days they didn't. Yeah.

[00:09:21] Well, it's my past one because some of them were fishermen and some of them were carpenter and some of them were hard laborers and some of them was a tax collector. One of them was a tax collector which everyone hated. Right.

[00:09:32] So putting that dynamic together was very difficult. And it's neat how they explore that, how they talk about that. And one of the things, one of the pictures going back to the pictures of Jesus and stuff that I love, there's two of them.

[00:09:45] One more he's laughing and he just has that, you know, it's kind of an iconic picture that has been painted. And the other one is where he's got the children up in his lap and he's smiling and laughing with the children.

[00:09:59] And we see that Jesus in this show. You see the seriousness, you see his pain and his agony and his anguish and some areas but you also see him laughing and being happy and, you know, looking at the disciples

[00:10:17] and going, oh my goodness, you boys, you boys are just, you're out of control. There's a full range of human emotion. And it's great, yeah. It's really awesome to see. So if you haven't seen it, go see it.

[00:10:29] We're not going to spoil anything this week, but episode one of season two came down and they said that they're going to try to get the episodes out as soon as they finish them. They're literally editing them right now and they're when they finish and they approved

[00:10:45] that they're finished, they're loading them up and getting them out to the people. So it's not an every Friday. Yeah. Every Friday, just. But you know, we might have a little bit of a chosen update if I leave. Yes.

[00:10:59] They're going through the season here in different episodes so that we can kind of take that journey with us if you want to, if you want it to. So that's an awesome thing. Welcome back everybody.

[00:11:35] So we've been on this thing where we have been going through a situation our home or our appliances and stuff have just been like, rebelling. They don't want to work anymore. They're like, we're done. We're done. We've been here way too long.

[00:11:55] Plus Becky and I will be celebrating our 30th wedding anniversary and a couple weeks. No, one week. Yeah. Week away and I kind of thinking about this thing of stuff and old stuff and investing in things, taking the time, money, energy that it takes to keep things going.

[00:12:21] Now we've been married for 30 years. I would love to just say every year, every minute, every day has just been amazing. As we look back, overall has been amazing. But there's been a lot of work. There's been a lot of investing.

[00:12:36] There's been a lot of blood sweat and tears, as they say. To make this whole thing happen to get to 30 years. It made me think about as we're looking at our appliances where our dryer broke. We gave you guys that side. Yeah, you gave it your about dryer.

[00:12:56] The dryer broke and had to be completely rebuilt. So, yeah, they rebuilt it. Everything in it is basically brand new except for the metal casing and the dryer drum itself. But it's basically a brand new dryer.

[00:13:14] The other thing was the refrigerator which had also been dying for a long time. And that one, it was time and it was replaced. Right. And so, you know, it was time. What do you invest in? And the things, what are you going to spend your time in?

[00:13:33] What are you going to pour into in relationships? It's kind of the same way because, you know what? We could kind of just, you know, dealt with it. Whatever. So here's the deal with what the refrigerator was doing. And it's been doing this for a year, y'all.

[00:13:48] Okay, so we've been putting up with it about a third of the refrigerator worked. The front third of the shelves were cool enough to keep things at the right temperature. The back two thirds of the refrigerator, if you dared to set anything back there,

[00:14:07] by the time you went back to get it, it was frozen solid. And no amount of adjusting the thermostat replacing the thermostat. None of that worked. It, it just were done. The refrigerator no longer cools properly.

[00:14:25] So we had kind of kept it going and then it plugged in and it turned on. And it cooled part of it properly but two thirds of it was not serviceable. Two thirds of it ruined what was put in there.

[00:14:41] And it affected how we ran our family because we couldn't buy full groceries for the, for the refrigerator. Which is a lot of fun with three teenagers in the house.

[00:14:54] Let me just say, you know, because if the eggs got turned from one from side to side to front and back, has everything. He's resting my pet peeve. There was more than one. Why are the eggs sideways?

[00:15:07] You open up the egg container and half the eggs are exploded because they've been in terms, you know, front to back and the back part was in the back part of their refrigerator and and froze. Milk, fro everything. Everything froze.

[00:15:20] You know, and you couldn't put vegetables because the vegetables would freeze. And we had turned it all the way down practically. And it just, it just didn't work. The ice machine would work for a day and then it would literally spray water all over

[00:15:36] the inside of the freezer. That's a mess. And then freeze. So the entire freezer turns into a block of ice and, you know, I know these seems like simple problems but, you know, I'm going to compare these and we're going to talk about

[00:15:49] these when it comes to also marriages. What do you do to invest in your marriage? And please understand, we're not saying that you're going to throw out your marriage. No, no, please don't. That's not what we're saying here.

[00:16:05] And you're going to hear and understand that when we're talking about this is that there's going to be some things that you're going to have to just change. Right. You know, there's going to be some things that you can repair like our dryer, you

[00:16:19] know, and the dryer had to be completely repaired and they threw away some things. I mean, they pulled away a bunch of stuff out but they were able to repair it and to keep it going and make it work. They were refrigerator on the other hand.

[00:16:32] There were some things that we needed to do. For the overall health of our family and how we operated, that was something that needed to go. And so, Becky and I have been talking about this and we kind of been, you know, what are

[00:16:47] those things that we've been doing over the years are things that we need to work on, things that we need to stop doing and just throw away, you know, for the overall health of our marriage.

[00:17:00] And one of the things that we talked about was that day to day investing in each other, we spend a lot of time talking with each other. Yes, I do. We spend a lot of time telling each other what's going on, how we think about things.

[00:17:18] We accept each other's opinions. Doesn't mean we are always going to agree with each other's opinions. Because we actually disagree on quite a few things. But we accept each other's opinions and we're able to speak them to each other freely

[00:17:33] and openly knowing that we're not going to chop off each other in the process. We're going to be heard even if it's a hard thing to hear. One of the things that everyone teases about is because we don't do big celebration things when it comes to milestone like,

[00:17:54] we don't do Valentine's Day, we don't do really this. It's just been recently that we've actually done a couple big anniversary things. Yeah, we under our 20th we did and on our 25th. Yeah.

[00:18:11] You know, I mean early on, our anniversary is where we literally, it became a fun tradition very early in our marriage when you don't have a lot to spend. One of the things that we do want you to know is that replacing appliances can get expensive

[00:18:27] investments in your marriage. Don't always have to be big expensive things. In fact, it needs to be the small consistent all the time things. Early on, one of our favorite things to do on our anniversary was go to a store and go, you know what?

[00:18:44] If money were no object but it is. And if money were no object and I was willing to spend five to seven dollars on a piece of paper that opens up and tells you how wonderful you are, this is the one I would buy.

[00:18:57] And we would exchange cards in the card island and put them right back in the slot. No. We would and we did that for years and we kept going, you know, this is,

[00:19:07] this is how much I love you is this card that I would not spend seven dollars for but here you go. But yeah, and I think that one of those things is just that every day of talking to each other

[00:19:20] that every day of expressing your love. One of the pastors that I met down in Ecuador, Fernando, he said that when you're down there in Ecuador there's people selling stuff on the side of the road

[00:19:35] and you can just roll down your window and hold out a dollar bill and someone will put candy in and stuff like that. And one of the big things is the chocolates and roses. There's chocolates and roses

[00:19:47] like in every intersection when you're driving through Ecuador and Fernando said, listen, it only takes a dollar. You just open, you know, roll down your window, put out a dollar, you'll get a rose and a bar of

[00:19:59] chocolate and you can come home with that. But those little things every day and that's investment. You know, everybody says that to really succeed in investing, it's you got to have a long-term approach

[00:20:17] and it's that little bit that you're going to do over and over and over again. Well, that's the same thing with your marriage. You can't just think that you're going to be in love forever and everything is going to be great

[00:20:28] and you're going to have the big wedding and everything and it's just going to be wonderful. If you don't invest in it, if you don't spend time in it, if you don't pour into it, if you don't talk about things, it's going to fall apart. It's going to,

[00:20:45] you're going to start separating from each other because believe it or not, the wedding isn't going to keep your marriage together five years later. No, it will not. Okay, so you've got to work on it,

[00:20:59] you've got to build on it every day and you've got to start pouring, let's put quotation marks here for everyone. You've got to put capital into it and it's going to be time. It might be money.

[00:21:14] It might be emotionally. It might be sharing things that you've held back or you. I remember one of the things with us on gosh, it would have been over 10 years ago now when we really started talking about

[00:21:31] emotionally, our feelings about each other and when we got down to the bare bones of going, this is how I feel about you and this is how we need to talk about this. Right? And well because it wasn't because we hadn't expressed love to each other before,

[00:21:53] it was because we were in a place in our marriage where it was actually out of really, really good intentions. We were trying to protect one another. Oh, well I think that it would hurt

[00:22:04] him if I, oh, I think it would hurt her if I and so we just wouldn't say things in order to protect each other. Y'all don't do that. Don't do that. It doesn't protect the other when it makes the other one go,

[00:22:18] well you don't really know me or you don't really trust me or you don't. So we had, we had cut through a bunch of that stuff and go, whoa, wait a minute, no I was protecting you. No, I don't need you to protect

[00:22:28] me. I need you to let me know you and be known by you. That's what marriage is. Right? And in the listen and listen to one another and be able to do it without getting angry, do it with

[00:22:44] out you know. And it's okay to get upset. It's okay to get frustrated that you got to deal with that right? Right. And you've got to make sure that you deal with it before it starts snowballing

[00:22:54] and starts getting bigger. Because you know when that when that ice maker sprays water all up in the freezer. You can't stand it, it'll look actually go. Why did you not let me do this?

[00:23:08] We're not to go. No, that's not always saying it was an analogy baby. Oh sorry, I'm sorry. See like that. I'm kidding. Okay. But it is it's we were we were having this discussion

[00:23:24] earlier today and actually yesterday we one of the things that we have started doing to invest in one another and invest in our own health is getting up and walking in the mornings. And

[00:23:33] on those walks we talk you know we get a good hour just us just to talk. And we were talking about this concept of investing and what it looks like and what it is and why it's so very important

[00:23:47] and and it is it's those it's those small constant things you know that the leak in the freezer that started with a little drip. We we noticed a small drip just in the back of the freezer

[00:24:01] and we'd clean it up and just you know just deal with it. But if you just clean it up and leave it and never fix it it it freezes up your whole freezer. The same thing goes you know it is

[00:24:15] it is the talking to one another. It is the listening to one other stop and listen when the other one's speaking and don't you do your very very best to not put a whole bunch of your own

[00:24:26] filters because we all come to these relationships with ideas about ourselves and ideas about how it will you must see me this way because this is how I see me and don't put those kind

[00:24:37] of filters and assumptions listen to one another. Problem solved together you know if there isn't issue problem solved together probably one of the big things that we've had to learn in those everyday things is watching just observe just to really see who your partner is. How do they

[00:24:59] respond best to things? Dan is okay if I when thank God Dan is okay if we don't have massive interior decorating that is not me I am a like disgustingly baseline practical human okay if it doesn't

[00:25:16] have a purpose it doesn't belong in my house you will not find flour arrangements here you will not find all kinds of artwork on the walls you will not find Nick Nax that's stuff you got

[00:25:26] a dust okay you won't find that in our house and he's okay with that when he is not okay with that stuff is a floor that has dog hair and dust on it he's not okay with that so see I'll

[00:25:44] yeah see he's blistered already because it's why I spend most of my life in slippers and shoes it's it's not okay to him early on I learned that and I paid attention and so you know

[00:25:59] if I noticed that the dogs are setting a little extra it takes what five minutes to vacuum the living room vacuum the living room right it's those little things those those little things where you just

[00:26:12] watch and you observe and you pay attention to who your spouse is and then you do things to serve them accordingly see that was the problem with our refrigerator only a third of it was serving

[00:26:26] its purpose properly right two thirds of it wasn't it needed to be invested in to upgrade it to wear a hundred percent of that thing was serving the way it was supposed to serve so that it

[00:26:39] didn't cause frustration so that it didn't cause anger so that it didn't cause ruin it's the same thing in your marriage yeah and it's hard sometimes when you've already been married for a while

[00:26:53] and you have to go back you know it's so important to start it from the very beginning as you're moving forward to start with some of those things in the very beginning but even when

[00:27:04] you start with some of those things the very beginning you still missed step you still do some things and you've got to be able and be willing to humble yourself and to make sure that

[00:27:16] it's important to you enough that you're going to do what it takes right and we talk about you know seeing God in our everyday and we see God in our marriage and we go okay what's the examples

[00:27:30] that God has showed us through scripture of the importance of investing in a relationship or investing and the people you know and prime example of that is Jesus with the disciples in the amount of time

[00:27:45] you know we only see about three or four weeks in the gospels I mean it's broken over three years but I mean there's only so little bit of time that we see I mean he spent three years with them

[00:27:57] you know and we only have the gospels that kind of highlight about three to four weeks of that four or that three year period God felt that it was so important to invest in these guys

[00:28:07] that he spent three years just pouring well into them so it's a great example to realize that it takes time it takes energy it takes sacrifice right you know but it's worth it in the end

[00:28:24] you know it's worth it when you look back and you go you know what we had some of times but my goodness wouldn't amazing three years we just had and looking forward for the next three years

[00:28:37] and right now Becky and I are working at home together and we're doing a lot of stuff together and it's not just the pandemic it's just the way our lives are now as we're just doing a lot

[00:28:49] of work together now we're even doing a podcast together and a video podcast together and we have ideas to do so much more together and people ask us the people like go how do you guys do this

[00:29:01] how do you guys not drive each other nuts and then how do you tell them we actually like each other we've actually again we've taken the time the capital it's spent into each other to know what

[00:29:15] each others likes and dislikes are to where we can work in intertwine through our data together and it's okay right and we've learned a lot of grace and a lot of you know we're very different

[00:29:29] personalities very different personalities so there's grace extended all the time I know that that my likes and dislikes are not the same as his which has been kind of cool because then we get

[00:29:43] to expose each other to new things right I would have never tried sushi y'all forget that she's good right but we're very different people but again it's beautiful you see it all the way

[00:29:59] back in the garden you know we were designed to complement one another yes and and we strive to do that instead of trying to to squash each other into well this is what I like so you should

[00:30:12] like what I like we've learned that with grace and with understanding that God designed you exactly the way you are your personality that the things you love that the things you can't stand

[00:30:27] the things that are just kind of quirky about you God designed that and so if you approach it from a wow God designed this person and I get to discover all the cool stuff about them you know

[00:30:42] I can't just emphasize enough of the thing of as we're getting older and our kids are now at that point where they're starting to get older we have adult children now who are now leaving the house and stuff we're starting to see the hard work of the last 30

[00:31:01] years and our our marriage and our relationship now we're going man do you realize and five years we're not gonna have any kids in the house you know that the empty nest syndrome

[00:31:14] well works I did about our you know we're like we love you kids but we love the kids we we love them and we're glad they're still home the ones that are still home and you know but we want

[00:31:26] them to be adults and we want them to get married and have their own kids their own and stuff like that but we're kind of looking around going man we get to have a second marriage you know we get to have

[00:31:38] our second after kids life I don't know how you would say that I don't think so we get to really focus on each other again but we get to really focus on each other and it's so exciting it's so cool

[00:31:51] there's no formula there's no one two three step plan I wish there was maybe maybe Becky and I will rack our brains together one of these days to come up with the with the formula

[00:32:04] and stuff but I don't think there is one no because and because it's relationship yeah and guys it's you know the whole name of this thing is seeing God in the everyday right well one of the

[00:32:16] things that has been so foundational in our marriage is understanding that it is about relationship this is in the marriage is the first institution that God ordained okay he put man and woman together

[00:32:32] he said be fruitful and multiply he's the one that put this together and said this is my design and he has set you know standards of what relationship ought to look like by showing us his

[00:32:46] relationship towards us right so as we have studied how he loves us how he behaves towards us how he treats us in all of his aspects there is an application to how we're supposed to treat

[00:33:03] one another to how those fruits of the spirit they love the joy the piece patients gentleness kindness goodness self-control those all play into the relationship of marriage and you can't put a formula on that

[00:33:18] you can't go well if you just A and then you add B then you will absolutely get C you know you can't foresee what life is gonna throw at you you can't foresee you know the circumstances you can't

[00:33:32] foresee the job changes the interest changes we've been together since we were teenagers we married he was 19 I was 18 when we married and we had dated for what three years yeah I don't offer about

[00:33:46] three years three years before that so we've been together a long time y'all I am not the same person I was when he met me and neither is he and you can't you can't make a formula for that

[00:33:57] right that's that requires constant choosing to love that requires constant forgiveness constant grace constant paying attention and appreciating and and learning and growing together and it's the same in our relationship with God you know it's it's this constant thing as we grow

[00:34:19] he continues to reveal more and more of himself to us we continue to fall more and more in love with him if we'll pay attention we continue to hear his voice more and understand what he's thinking

[00:34:30] and know what he'd love and appreciate before he has to tap us on the shoulder and go um child right sometimes the more you get to know him the more you anticipate those things it's the same

[00:34:43] in a marriage yep and at like you're saying Becky it's the at your relationship grows as you grow together just like our relationship with our Heavenly Father will continue to grow and as we're

[00:34:56] growing with him we're going together it continues to change it continues to more if continues to take this next step to whatever it's going to be it's just fun it is it's a lot of fun it is

[00:35:10] but it takes that investment otherwise you're going to sit there with 130 your refrigerator working yep yep so you might have to look for those things that are causing issues and discuss them and work on them and fix them and there might be some things that you need to

[00:35:27] clear out maybe you need to replace them with something new and again we're not talking about a spouse we're talking about some of those issues that might need a little more more in depth

[00:35:40] help and stuff so just want to encourage you with that word and just let you know we're rooting for you um we really we love to see strong marriages love to hear the stories of people who are

[00:35:54] been there done that and have struggled through and have come out the underside excited and even more in love and it's so cool so well I think that's going to wrap it up for

[00:36:08] this week a little more of a discussion type thing and we enjoyed hanging out with you guys honestly folks thank you so much for listening and giving us feedback and letting us know that you

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[00:36:49] encouragement for their marriage or might need to know about a new Christian show that would just blow their socks off or would we know something like humility babe more about the um

[00:37:01] well I wasn't talking about that I was talking about the the chosen okay oh see there you go see communication we got to pay attention right it's right so um you know that you might want to

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[00:37:25] we'll see you next week we'll see you next week and see you in God in the every day all right I wish you guys bye bye bye

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