Send us Fan Mail The Kids are Asleep, Now What! Once you get into a romantic relationship or marriage and have kids, your relationship dynamics can drastically change. It is very easy to lose a once romantic marriage if you don't take the necessary measures to protect it. You have to be very proactive about spending time together and making time for one another. How do you get on a schedule at the end of your long working day when your kids are asleep? What boundaries have you put in place wi...