05 - Male Survivor Awareness Day 2022, Part 1 (from the Husband Material LIVE event 10/25/22 and ...
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05 - Male Survivor Awareness Day 2022, Part 1 (from the Husband Material LIVE event 10/25/22 and ...

This is the first of a 3-part recording of a live Zoom event that happened on October 25, 2022 in honor of Male Survivor Awareness Day (https://www.google.com/url?q=https://menhealing.net/newsletter/12958417&sa=D&source=editors&ust=1697462690049054&usg=AOvVaw2vvavKrylxeTX75SsRJlcH)   The event was the result of efforts by myself, Drew Boa, Dr. Doug Carpenter, with many contributions from Survivors within HM (who submitted poetry and other items to be shared, some live, some previously recorded and some read by others). There will also be a time for Questions and Answers. The goal for this event (and the “Day” in total) was to help non-survivors understand and work with survivors to help support them on their healing journeys. With Drew's permission I am sharing the episode with you here. Due to the length, I am dividing it into 3 podcast episodes.



Original video version of this interview is available on YouTube (https://www.google.com/url?q=https://youtu.be/JCHKzwsqwdQ?si%3D1KDalBhbRsg4X-Fb&sa=D&source=editors&ust=1697462690049814&usg=AOvVaw0H-AletpFpQyJHwnWuQp8d) .



Here is the original description from Drew's Podcast:



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What's it like to be a male survivor of sexual abuse? In our very first community-based episode, Husband Material men tell their stories of sexual abuse. You'll learn how to respond appropriately to the needs of male survivors.



Mike Chapman is a Certified Husband Material Coach and the leader of our community sub-group for survivors of sexual abuse. Contact Mike at



Resources mentioned:




• 1in6.org (https://www.google.com/url?q=https://1in6.org/&sa=D&source=editors&ust=1697462690052150&usg=AOvVaw2T2zRS1Sh1EFc0P1XdQjKe)  - helpful website


• No Longer Ashamed (https://www.google.com/url?q=https://anchor.fm/kevin-bolger4/episodes/Introduction-to-No-Longer-Ashamed-ehqoid&sa=D&source=editors&ust=1697462690052562&usg=AOvVaw3DqfN1rloHZl3yPg0g6n5t)  - podcast for survivors


• What Is CSA Normal? (https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.husbandmaterial.com/csa-normal&sa=D&source=editors&ust=1697462690052909&usg=AOvVaw28-g5Cx8FYsPYwRG642A2L)  - a free document by Mike Chapman


• Healing From Sexual Abuse (https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.husbandmaterial.com/healing-from-sexual-abuse&sa=D&source=editors&ust=1697462690053252&usg=AOvVaw1QE9P97HvEhvimDi7t_9ah)  - course by Dr. Doug Carpenter


• Secret Shame: A Survivor's Guide To Understanding Male Sexual Abuse And Male Sexual Development (https://www.google.com/url?q=https://amzn.to/33q7CXw&sa=D&source=editors&ust=1697462690053586&usg=AOvVaw2ryHx-6hUCnZ8z-3klSEtX)  - book by Dr. Doug Carpenter (paid link)


• Husband Material Coaching (https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.husbandmaterial.com/coaching&sa=D&source=editors&ust=1697462690053944&usg=AOvVaw3P8IXttgdUQFZZ5tygx57I)  - get professional help to heal




Husband Material episodes about sexual abuse:




• Was I Sexually Abused? (https://www.google.com/url?q=https://podcast.husbandmaterial.com/713910/9938689-was-i-sexually-abused-with-dr-doug-carpenter&sa=D&source=editors&ust=1697462690054433&usg=AOvVaw3pAtLEJzqKLmA5d_mRZpPo)  (interview with Dr. Doug Carpenter)


• Sexual Arousal vs. Sexual Desire (https://www.google.com/url?q=https://podcast.husbandmaterial.com/713910/10616077-sexual-arousal-vs-sexual-desire-with-dr-doug-carpenter&sa=D&source=editors&ust=1697462690054801&usg=AOvVaw3dNyjn_vt-tWb-b-vh0pfx)  (interview with Dr. Doug Carpenter)


• Healing From Sexual Abuse, Part 1 (https://www.google.com/url?q=https://podcast.husbandmaterial.com/713910/9976315-a-story-of-healing-from-sexual-abuse-with-mike-chapman&sa=D&source=editors&ust=1697462690055161&usg=AOvVaw22eF5dQXtMNo-J8wrV1izA)  (interview with Mike Chapman)


• Healing From Sexual Abuse, Part 2 (https://www.google.com/url?q=https://podcast.husbandmaterial.com/713910/9976320-healing-from-sexual-abuse-part-2-with-mike-chapman&sa=D&source=editors&ust=1697462690055513&usg=AOvVaw36eZyw-UlbiRVDoYlswdbc)  (interview with Mike Chapman)


• Porn As Re-Enactment Of Sexual Abuse (https://www.google.com/url?q=https://podcast.husbandmaterial.com/713910/8526613-porn-as-re-enactment-of-sexual-abuse-with-wendell-moss&sa=D&source=editors&ust=1697462690055912&usg=AOvVaw3ShLQ0tDkZLiiFHdpyk4K0)  (interview with Wendell Moss)


• Rags To Riches To Ruin To Redemption (https://www.google.com/url?q=https://podcast.husbandmaterial.com/713910/10099348-rags-to-riches-to-ruin-to-redemption-with-dr-joe-martin&sa=D&source=editors&ust=1697462690056280&usg=AOvVaw2MDHzMJlPTQO1RjAMeAUJo)  (interview with Dr. Joe Martin)




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Doug Carpenter is also now a Certified Husband Material Coach



Additional Resources mentioned, but not linked:




• MaleSurvivor.org (https://www.g...