Relationship Matters More Than We Think

This past Friday, I attended a funeral where I saw a lot of family members I hadn’t seen in a long time. While it was a very sad occasion, it was also a reminder of how valuable it is to simply be around each other (or together).  

 As I stood there looking around, I realized something; we are all living in our own little bubbles of life. In general, everyone is trying their best to get through, regardless of what’s happening in the world or behind closed doors.

I realized I have to do better—because you never truly know how much of a difference you can make in someone’s life. If your a Christian like me, we are called to be the light. Sometimes, you may be the only light a person encounters. You never know what struggles someone is facing when no one else is around, and you never know how a few words of encouragement from a call or text might impact someone. A simple phone call, a quick check-in or a genuine “I’m praying for you.”

It doesn’t take much to make a five-minute call, or send a text that may change someone’s mindset—or even their direction. 

Too often we say, “I’ll reach out” or “Let’s stay in touch,” and never do it.  The Bible calls us to be intentional. Relationships thrive when we follow through.

Scripture reminds us that relationships are part of God’s design. God said it was not good for us to be alone:

Then the Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper who is just right for him. Genesis 2:18. 

We were never meant to live isolated lives. Family, friendships, and (church) community are not extras; they are woven into God’s plan for connection, growth, and support.

Our relationship with Jesus is the primary way people connect with God. Through how we love, speak, forgive, and show grace, others see Him. That’s why Jesus tells us to seek God first:

Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need. Matthew 6:33

When Christ is at the center, our relationships become places of healing instead of harm. This also means loving people even when we don’t agree with their lifestyle or the way they move through life. The Bible doesn’t call us to approve of everything, it calls us to love faithfully. 

Staying connected, offering encouragement, and showing genuine care can make an eternal difference. You never know how God is working when you send that text, or make a quick call. 

We should never take this life or our relationships for granted. God uses relationships to sharpen us, mature us, and reflect His heart to others. 

As iron sharpens iron, so a friend sharpens a friend. Proverbs 27:17

When that person pops into your mind, give them a call or just shoot them a text. You may be the light someone desperately needs.

Let’s Pray. Dear Heavenly Father, Thank You for designing us for connection and community. Help us not to take our relationships for granted. Give us sensitive hearts to see people the way You see them and give me the courage to reach out with love and encouragement. Teach us to be Your light in dark places and to reflect Jesus in how we care for others. Use our words, our time, and our presence to make a difference in someone’s life today. In Jesus’ precious name, Amen.